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Oops!

Guess it's been awhile since I've posted anything. I'm discovering that more people read my blog than I thought. Sorry! Well, Happy New Year!

Since I last wrote, I turned 28 years old, celebrated Christmas with both families (Christmas Eve with Walter's family, Christmas day with my family), and had an awesome New Year's Eve party at Walter's (soon-to-be "our") house. It was a blast and so fun to celebrate with our Growth Group. We are really blessed to have such a wonderful group of church friends.

Things are falling into place with the wedding plans -- less than two months! I'm looking for my Bridal Shower on January 28th. We just sent our invitations and we need to start planning our High School reception (and then mail those invitations). Walter and I both work with the High School Youth Group and want to invite all the students to the wedding, so we are having a separate reception for them. It will probably be Saturday, March 17th. I have to check it the church is available. It should be fun.

It seems like just the little things need to be done: flowers, etc. I do need to start figuring out the ceremony order. I'm not worried. Plus, my mom is doing an AWESOME job. I'm very blessed.

I hope you had a wonderful Christmas and New Year's. And, once again, I will try to post sooner than later.

Comments

Manda said…
Yay! thanks for the update. Sounds like things are moving along. We got the invitation in the mail...how exciting and official!!
Can't wait to see you as a bride!!
Manda

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