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Less then Four Months!!!

This engagement thing is going by WAY too slow. For those of you who say it goes fast, what did you do to make the time go by? We feel like time is just standing still. Hopefully, the holidays will make time go by faster.

Walter and I made our honeymoon reservations last week!!! :) How fun! We have our first pre-marital counseling session this Saturday. We'll probably go look at tuxes that day as well. I still need to get a videographer for the ceremony and a DJ. I think because everyone I've talked to has been available, I've just been slacking. Pretty soon I think I'll start cake-tasting. :) mmm...

I can't wait till our wedding and we get to spend the rest of our lives together. We are having so much fun decorating the house, etc. (I'm selling my townhouse and moving into Walter's house after we're married).

I know these are just a bunch of random thoughts, but I need to give you some type of update.

Comments

Manda said…
Dana! Thanks for the update! Don't worry, the holiday will suck up your time. And the last month before you're engaged will make you crazy with all the little things you have to get done!
Hang in there...the rest of your life is just around the corner!!
:)
Manda

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